It's a beautiful thing to find love in someone and I believe I'm not the only one having different thoughts of how I want that day to be like. The day when someone's son will decide to make me the love of his life. The person to be his new family and the mother of his children. Right now, the song called PERFECT is what is playing in my head, hehe.
I've attended a lot of wedding ceremonies and seeing how lovely the couples are just make me wish when my own time will come too. Planning a wedding is never easy and that is why I'm sure some people take it up as a profession to just help those who have money to plan their grand wedding. Well, it won't be out of place to have a wedding planner if I have that money to spend but mind you,that does not in anyway mean I want a grand wedding ceremony, I just don't want to stress myself.
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Marriage starts after the wedding so I don't want to get too exhausted planning a wedding ceremony and after the wedding I'd feel so tired, if you know what I mean. And also the wedding involves me and the love of my life, hehe so we have to plan it together with maybe a wedding planner. But personally, I do have the way I wish my wedding ceremony will be like and that's what I'd be sharing in this blog.
I want my wedding to be in a very opened hall where all my guest can see my man and his wife (me). This is very important to me for some reasons and one of that reason is due to the fact that I've been to wedding ceremonies that I didn't get to see the couples, lol. I was so pained because I don't know them too well but I've heard so much about both individuals and all I wanted was to see their faces that day which I couldn't.
As the celebrant of that day, I want all my invited guest to see me very well and if possible they shouldn't have a reason to stand up to do so. One of the easiest ways to disorganize a wedding for me, is by making your guest stand up to see you. It is so disorganizing for me really and I don't want that in my own wedding ceremony.
For me I believe so many people enjoy getting a wedding gift from wedding ceremonies they attend especially here in my country. Well, I do love the idea but then I would want to share something that every single person will get and be happy whenever they remember their presence at my wedding. I don't have anything in mind yet but I hope I do by the time I'm ready.
I love gowns a lot and I believe my wedding gown will be one of the best for me but then I don't want anything that would be too expensive but it would be one of it's kind. Thank God I have a very good fashion designer already so that will be taken care of without too much stress, hehe.
In all of these, I'm hoping that my husband would be the best man for me because like I said, the marriage actually starts after the wedding so I hope I feel grateful everyday for having that one person in my life. I want people to talk about my wedding but not because of the event but because of how beautiful my marriage will be after.
That will be all at least until I find someone, hehe. Always stay AWESOME and JIGGY!!!
