Firstly I am not married.
Secondly I am in my early 20's.
Writing this piece through lots of experience and mine too.
I basically grew up with my dad due to his ministry and following him to different place our church transferred him to as a pastor.
My mom stayed to manage home with one of my siblings and the family business, so she visit every weekend.
NOTE: There's different between a mother training her girl child and a father training his girl child.
Majority of men love to do chores sharp sharp !! and at the end of the day, every where will be scattered and they will sleep off peacefully, but trust me a woman needs perfection in all she does.
My father taught me how to be hardworking but never taught me the perfection aspect and I won't lie it's affecting me up till date.
My mom tried her best , but I was long gone.
It's wasn't single parenting but I spent most days of my life living with my dad and it has its disadvantage and advantage too.
Fast forward to few years I lived with two single mothers, hmmmn!! I almost got destroyed.
Not all single mothers can bear the pains of their failed marriage, and to that end their children are deprived of complete and balance parenting.
Note, I am not saying that children that are raised by single parent are not raised well, yes they are raised well but it's really rare.
The two single mothers I lived with planted the thought of how men are wicked and how men enslave women and how men are scum, remember that what you hear consistently will surely have an effect on you, so I lived for about five to six years having such thoughts and feeling that there's are no reasonable men out there.
Now I have realized that for the facts they had failed marriage doesn't mean, love doesn't exist.
I had friends back then their parents warn them strictly about children raised by single parent, due to how they were raised with bitterness and tough words.
Even as of the time I was teaching, I have seen lot's of damage caused by single parenting.
Now, I have a question here and please I need a reply in the comment section.
What do you think will be some valuable tips for single parent on how to raise their children properly, or better still, what can we do to limit single parenting.
