As much as I hate talking about it, I feel that there are people who are also experiencing the exact same problem and they could learn from my experience, I hate to share this because I don't want to always live in the past, as it always been my custom it often feels like I'm always regretting one decisions or another, every choices I make seems to always fall off on the wrong side, despite being a very meticulous person, I plan I prepare and I do my best to see to it that every decisions and choices I make will always produce something positive for the next phase of my life.
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While serving last year I had the privilege of speaking with the pupils in the school were I taught, there i shared with them few tips and experiences around decision making and choices and how this shaped our lives, this is very profound because everything in life is anchored on it.
if you look at your life now, what score would you rate your self, it is a fact that whatever we are today is a result of the decisions and choices we of yesterday, and so the things that is about to happen tomorrow will be a product of our choices, decisions, actions and inactions of today, somehow what we're experiencing now are the consequences of our fathers and forefather's action and inaction, by the time we're done dealing with that alot of time has passed, we're now trying to figure out our own life later, it's either we've already made some terrible mistakes in the past,but this is why some people are far off because of the right foundation laid for them.
making better Decisions in life
boils down to the fact that there could be some certain things already sorted out, you can't seem to compare decisions from kids of the rich to the decisions the poor kid from a poor parent will make, the options before him is limited meanwhile the rich as lots of options, the former already had some good grounds to make good decisions and build while the later had to work hard to buy the ground on which to start something meaningful.
everyday we're trying so hard to fix one thing or another, to some it's easy to others life seems to be a night mare, we suffer consequences of our actions what we ought to do and not, one of the ways to always make better decisions is to live futuristically
one of the hardest things to do in life is delaying immediate gratification, I always tell myself, if I must achieve certain results later in life I must be very careful about my choices and decisions today cause I know somehow they will determine how and what my future self becomes....
not everything now is necessary, as a man of vision I can't be headed in every direction, having understood the outcome of my life is dependent on the things I do now then if I must have an excellent and a more glorious life then I must start now to do the things necessary for this kind of life, whatever kind of life a person wants there are prerequisites to them adhering to those is how you achieve results and become what you proposed.
Life is whatever you say it is, the question is what are you saying...?
