one time I was with my barber and he narrated a story of a woman who gave birth to triplet, according to him the family were struggling financially then boom three kids at once, at that point, he asked me is that a blessing or something else?
my answer was "it's a blessing" he's own stand was that wasn't a blessing, reason being that God knew and saw how these family are struggling to cater for themselves then he gave them three kids at once, how will they be able to take care of these children with what exactly....
I told him in life our perspective differs and it also really matters how we see and perceive things, I can see that as a blessing, meanwhile he can see it as trouble or a problem, I then asked him is it a blessing , he answered yes than my stand was if its a blessing then there are no sorrows attached to it, no matter how it seems at the moment, because God who gave them that bundle of joy will in turn provide all that is required to take care of them.
it's the heart he looks at, is it ready to accommodate?, does it have the capacity to enlarge?, then he will send it.
it's like trying to figure out everything before you move, life isn't built that way, When Abraham was convinces of God's leading in his spirit, he didn't wait to get it all figured out, he moved regardless, that was faith in motion.
if at a point God's blessing comes when we least expect it like the family that got a triplet even tho the means wasn't there, whatever it is we're doing he will bless it more, open doors through it , pouring more blessings that will takecare of it.
the blessings of the lord makes rich and adds no sorrow, no matter the state of things be rest assure he's aware of it and is in control, he won't allow it more than we can handle, he's God of the universe, all mighty and all knowing, trusting him is all that matters.
