just before I saw this post i was actually teasing my friend about this marriages going on everywhere after viewing his stat of a wedding scheduled on 2nd of January 2026, meanwhile just last week I was part of a grooms men for a friend's wedding, so its like ending the year and beginning another with weddings, the whole space is flooded with pre-wedding photos up and down, I told him ...guy this oppression is too much oo we need to get married anyhow 馃槅 they say the country is hard but then they're getting married as if it's a movie show.
I've actually studied this trend during festive period like this and beginning of a new year it's usually about wedding as some planned it to make sure they get married that year or move it to first week, but all the same kudos to them all, me too will get my own done when the time is right
the issue of getting married is more pressing on the female folks and also within the African context after certain age the pressure becomes more intense on them
it can be so overwhelming trying to balance life pursuit with marital pressure, as a young lady your biological clock is ticking and as a yung man certain factors needs to be in place before thinking marriage, trying to pursue personal goals both career and skill wise can be draining, but hey don't allow societal standards predict your life, resist the pressure because under these circumstances we make alot of blunders some of which we can regret for our entire lives..
As a young man I want nothing more right now than to be with my wife, have my kids and start raising my family early enough, I really don't know why a lot of young men choose to while away thier youthful age having fun and before they realize it's times up well this is also more predominant among the women, flirting doing all kinds of stuffs till they realise its times up.
marriage fever is real, it's everywhere oppression is real but that shouldn't take you off balance, give room to no pressure, do what you have to do live your life at ease with yourself and others there's definitely a time frame allocated to everything under the sun if you stand your ground you will reap the due rewards, give no room for pressure