After a few very difficult weeks personally, a difficult separation, I feel obliged to take on other cases, it would not be the negative of the story, but a new adventure with undoubtedly interesting challenges.
Once again but with better tools and a more introspective position I find myself with the challenge of living alone, 4 years ago I had a partner who unfortunately we could not continue as a couple, and how can we do so that in these cases of perhaps issues that They surpass us in everyday life, not take it to the cases.
This job, like the vast majority related to health, we need to be well, and have a waist, you may wonder what I mean by this, well, to be able to take second place our feelings for the fact that it surpasses us and dedicate ourselves exclusively to the cases (work) in the time that we should be, and grieve as best we can each of us, and in addition to all this, I had a fever, cough and a lot of discomfort, which was not easy, but nothing is more catastrophic than stagnation, it is necessary to grieve, take the time to think, cry, assimilate the loss and move on with our lives, projects and desires.
Let's go to case 3, I'll meet her on Monday, I don't have much more information than she has BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder). Let's go by part, as the name indicates, it is a mismatch of personality in different aspects, characteristic of each subject that conceives the subject to have impulsive actions and chaotic relationships with other people.
Although this may seem horrifying for those who experience it and their closest family circle, whom I have the opportunity to accompany leads a fairly normal life, teaching and giving private classes, playing instruments, but that does not mean that everything is fine, I will continue to advance some progress and discovery that you can make at the time of meeting her, we always have to put ourselves in her situation, abandon our perception of situations and analyze them from the place of the accompanied, so we can position ourselves in an objective place and thus be able (using the term prop up) the subject to a progressive improvement, with ups and downs, but possibly that their quality of life improves and is not dependent on their grief.
Both previous cases we are seeing valuable progressions, although they are not very noticeable in the most absurd sense, we can notice a link building, and that in this type of work is essential to work it in a better and efficient way. On the other hand, unfortunately, Case number 1 was hospitalized again, these problems that he experiences are unfortunate, they delay any project that we could have been working on, and he suffers, and that is the most painful for the person accompanied, although case number 1 has psychosis On the one hand, it is positive for everything that lives day by day (since they do not have a complete notion of the situation) it is still something very negative to work on, the case becomes more complex, but there is always the option of continuing to try until you can see bloom the flower
