and work for it and it fails countlessly, doesn't mean your life is a failure. You can't expect or predict the sea will be no waves or a bad storm. Ignore what someone else said about your failure because it is part of you for learning through the process that you wanted to achieve in something and this isn't their problem. you fail, you learn, you get smarter. theres a quotes said that I never lose. Either i win or i learn. Its good to have rivals, it helped you to motivate your self to achieve the goals, but never get into your head with their success and turns into envy and dark negative jealousy because it can ruin it everything for you now and in the future.
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