Definitivamente este sentimiento cuando es bien correspondido es de lo mejor, pero tal cual as铆 como lo escrib铆, cuando es bien correspondido, de otra manera definitivamente puede causar mucho da帽o.
Pienso que, el 99% de las personas han sufrido en alg煤n momento de su vida una desilusi贸n amorosa, creo que esto forma parte de la vida para dejarnos un aprendizaje y as铆 no volver a cometer los mismos errores con otra persona.
Si, definitivamente la respuesta es que si. No s茅 si definir que hay varios tipos de amores, pero lo que puedo afirmar es, que el amor de novios y el amor de esposo no son iguales, el amor que se puede llegar a sentir cuando se es novio de alguien, es un amor con adrenalina, o por lo menos asi lo pudiese definir yo, es ese amor que lo vives intensamente, que te atreves a cometer locuras, a escaparte, a esconderte, a realizar cualquier tipo de aventura donde lo primero que se presenta son esas mariposas en tu estomago, HAS SENTIDO ALGO ASI???
Por el contrario, el amor de esposos, es aquel amor tranquilo, aquel amor seguro, d贸nde la adrenalina baja, no por dejar de amar, sino porque ya las aventuras pasan a ser formales, por ejemplo, si antes intentaba escaparte con tu novio y te escond铆as para que no te vieran, ya que es tu esposo puedes ir para todas partes sin necesidad ni de escaparte ni de esconderte.
Lo cierto de todo esto es, que el amor cuando es bien correspondido se debe mantener, no solamente se debe creer que est谩s segura de tenerlo, es mantener esa llama d铆a a d铆a ardiendo para que no se apague.
En mi caso, 煤ltimamente he compartido con mi esposo algo que no pens茅 que nos gustara tanto, como lo es el hacer ejercicios, a pesar de las ocupaciones del d铆a a d铆a, de la responsabilidad que tenemos con cada uno de nuestros hijos, tratamos de sacar un tiempo, aunque sea peque帽o, para compartir este tipo de actividades.
Algo que definitivamente tampoco puede faltar, son esos detalles que hacen salir de la rutina y, que definitivamente, te sorprenden, siempre he dicho que, no hace falta un regalo costoso, ni siquiera algo material, pero si algo que sea inesperado, que definitivamente te haga sentir importante y especial para esa persona.
El d铆a de ayer, estando en mi lugar de trabajo me llega un msj de mi esposo que dec铆a, que me iban a llevar algo para donde yo estaba, al leer el mensaje le respond铆 que estaba bien, en el momento estaba con mis estudiantes realizando el acto para el dia de las madres y haciendo muchas cosas, ni siquiera le pregunt茅 que era ese algo, al pasar cierto tiempo, me llama el portero de mi sitio laboral informando que me solicitaban en la puerta , cuando me traslado hacia la puerta, habia un sr. (Conocido por mi esposo y mi persona) Y me dice: "Toma, esto te lo manda tu esposo" 馃槰
Pues eran unos lentes de regalo, que me hab铆an gustado, que el sab铆a que los quer铆a y que me los mand贸, definitivamente mi cara era un poema, la emoci贸n no era normal y por supuesto los presum铆 hasta m谩s no poder 馃ぃ馃ぃ馃ぃ
Pues si, de eso se trata este bonito sentimiento, de afianzar lo que se siente, de regar d铆a a d铆a, para poder cosechar algo bonito y para que un bellos suspiro se nos escape cuando podamos verbalizar... EL AMOR Y SUS SORPRESAS....
Definitely this feeling when it is well reciprocated is the best, but just as I wrote, when it is well reciprocated, otherwise it can definitely cause a lot of damage.
I think that 99% of people have suffered at some point in their lives a disappointment in love, I think this is part of life to leave us a learning experience so we don't make the same mistakes again with another person.
Yes, definitely the answer is yes. I don't know if I can define that there are several types of love, but what I can say is that the love of a boyfriend and the love of a husband are not the same, the love that you can feel when you are someone's boyfriend, is a love with adrenaline, or at least that's how I could define it, is that love that you live it intensely, that you dare to do crazy things, to escape, to hide, to make any kind of adventure where the first thing that appears are those butterflies in your stomach, HAVE YOU FELT SOMETHING LIKE THAT? ??
On the contrary, married love is that quiet love, that safe love, where the adrenaline goes down, not because you stop loving, but because the adventures become formal, for example, if before you tried to run away with your boyfriend and you were hiding so they would not see you, now that he is your husband you can go everywhere without the need to run away or hide.
The truth of all this is that love when it is well reciprocated must be maintained, you must not only believe that you are sure you have it, it is to keep that flame burning day by day so that it does not go out.
In my case, lately I have shared with my husband something that I did not think we would like so much, such as exercising, despite the day to day occupations, the responsibility we have with each of our children, we try to take some time, even if it is small, to share this type of activities.
Something that definitely can not miss, are those details that make you get out of the routine and that definitely surprise you, I have always said that you do not need an expensive gift, not even something material, but something that is unexpected, that definitely makes you feel important and special for that person.
Yesterday, while I was at my workplace I received a message from my husband saying that they were going to take something to where I was, when I read the message I replied that it was fine, at the time I was with my students performing the act for Mother's Day and doing many things, I did not even ask him what was that something, after some time, the doorman of my workplace called me informing that I was requested at the door, when I moved to the door, there was a Mr. (known by my husband and myself) and said to me: "Here, this is what your husband sent you" 馃槰 馃槰.
Well, they were a gift glasses, that I had liked, that he knew I wanted them and that he sent them to me, definitely my face was a poem, the emotion was not normal and of course I showed them off to the max 馃ぃ馃ぃ馃ぃ馃ぃ馃ぃ
Well yes, that's what this beautiful feeling is all about, to strengthen what you feel, to water day by day, to be able to harvest something beautiful and for a beautiful sigh to escape us when we can verbalize..... LOVE AND ITS SURPRISES....
