Just as salt is the spice of food, so is humor the key to chatting. If appropriate jokes are served in the chat then laughter erupts. Laughing then our stomachs get stuck. At one point this extra smile brought tears to our eyes.
Of course, these tears are not sad, it's happy. I sometimes wonder how happiness is expressed through tears.
That's a joke.
When this word floats in front of us, we are reminded of the foolish idiots. We just laugh when we hear a joke. We all have curiosity about this joke but do we ever think about the bad aspects of this joke? You may think again, what is the bad side of the joke?
Earlier in the day, blacks were the laughing stock of whites. Let us now try to find the subtexts of such jokes;
We often say that if he can do this, I will carry a bangle in my hand. Hearing this, we went to the realm of laughter. Well tell me, is it wrong to wear bangles? Or is it a matter of contempt? If this is a matter of contempt and injustice, then do girls carry laughter all their lives? Of course not. But we have come to believe that wearing bangles is a cowardly thing.
Let me tell you two lines of our national poet Kazi Nazrul Islam's poem "Women" about bangles on hands and feces on feet. He wrote, "You can't look me in the eye today; bangles on your hands, feces on your head, tear off the woman, break the shackles!"
If I don't read the poem and think about it, do women's bangles and stools really carry the subject of laughter and signs of subjugation?
Dajjal, barren, resounding, garrulous, witch, deceiver, whore, naughty , fraud, trick, flirt, coquette,low intelligence,stupid, cunning,There is no talk in the stomach, unbelievers etc.
Well, are these words only for girls? Sadly, these are words we only use for girls. Not only that, but we also use these words for subject of humor or laughter.
Why? Even in this modern age we still use the above words for the girl nation. And we speak of equality between men and women.
Many times many of us say, "If an idiot like him can do this, I will wear a sari-blouse and walk around." Now you tell me, sari-blouse is an insult? Sari-blouse is a joke? You say no. I will say the same.
Now let's look at the others;
Successful people are in control of almost every single situation. The laughter of the rich is a matter of the poor. The laughter of the meritorious is a foolish party.
We do the most inequitable things in the world for the sake of jokes. This is why we feel tears come to our eyes when we laugh too much. This is my personal opinion.
We know that there are more punishments for minor sins, but we will not have the lesser punishment for the sins we commit by joking?
We should avoid misogynistic, anti-social, anti-poor, anti-failed, anti-appetite jokes. Intentionally or unintentionally, when people of a particular caste or group are constantly humiliated by telling or doing jokes, it can no longer be called a joke, it becomes a irony. Through it, laughter is not expressed then, hatred is expressed. But sadly, this hatred is sometimes expressed in the form of laughter and jokes. When jokes spread such hatred, we say, seven murders are forgiven.
So I would say be careful in applying the color language of the joke. If you say that after hearing this, then the joke will rise from among us or not? Then I will understand that the bad side of the joke has been revealed among you.
And if you really want to joke, you can read the writings of color writers.
