The story of a friend, when he does not succeed and fails in doing something the goal of being successful, my friend does not blame others, but it happens that he blames himself.
Blame yourself for feeling inadequate. This is different from admitting mistakes. If we admit mistakes is because we are honest, and we are confident that we are wrong and we will find a way out for the mistakes we make. While Blaming yourself for a failure is a thing that means less good or negative, self-blame tend to consider themselves less capable, less capable, or feel guilty.
The nature of self-blame, making us deep in self-distrust, and making us tend to be pessimistic about our abilities, is not good for our progress and our development.
Because if we fail, or wrong we should seek tau failure factor that makes us fail, if it is a factor to not self-ability, this should be a factor our spirit to be able to improve ourselves and improve our ability, do not make us tenggalam own blame .
Self-defeating attitude sometimes makes us feel inferior, we have no ability. We often compare the success of others to our shortcomings, so that the success of others is considered reasonable because they have something more that we do not have.
Attitude of self-blame makes us unable to compete, have no more value, trust in ourselves stored power that no one else has, and we also have shortcomings. Do not highlight our flaws, show us the excess talent we have.
Introesksi self exploring our abilities, discussing with friends, parents, colleagues about our strengths, highlighting our ability, a friend in an office I once considered less able in working in the field A, when he moved office he can get a much better position on different fields.
Our courage to make a changeable decision is paramount, do not just get stuck in a lack of self, let's find our strengths, and never blame ourselves for our incompetence. Because it will only make us drown in the helplessness, realize and change the way of view, and the pattern of life then
you will become better in achieving the goals and success will come to you.
"sure you have advantages in a field, find and find your excellence then you will be successful".
"Never blame yourself, because mistakes caused many factors, find, find and fix errors will be a valuable experience"
