...Desnuda, que no habr谩 dise帽o que te quede mejor, que el de tu piel ajustada a tu figura...
Tuvimos una larga conversaci贸n mi mente y yo la otra noche, tuve que ponerme duro con ella..., quiere hacer lo que le da la gana, a la hora que se le antoja, no me deja dormir cuando se le ocurre alguna idea de madrugada y encima ahora le ha dado por acusarme de cuestiones que carecen de sentido y que dice ella que es abuso de poder de mi parte, aprovechandome de que soy el due帽o.
驴Saben que me dijo ayer? Me dijo toda descompuesta y gesticulativa, que la pr贸xima vez que la fuera a desnudar, o mejor dicho, dejar en ropa interior sin su consentimiento frente a un mont贸n de Hivers desconocidos que bien podr铆an ser viciosos de mentes sucias(sus palabras, no m铆as), podr铆a al menos tener la decencia de avisarle para no ponerse el blumer viejo de los huecos detr谩s y usar ajustadores decentes para no pasar verg眉enza frente a totales desconocidos. Eso lo dice por el pasado post que hice para el #wekend-engagement de la comunidad weekend-experiences.
Dice ella que si ahora me va a dar por hacer ese tipo de cosas, estaremos develando detalles 铆ntimos que nos expondr铆a a qu茅 todos conozcan nuestras debilidades o vulnerabilidades y que puedan ser usadas en nuestra contra.
As铆 que, en total desacuerdo con ella, me dispuse a darle est谩 explicaci贸n a ver si lograba entender mi enfoque, con el permiso de ustedes, queridos lectores, se los contar茅 como si estuviera hablando con ella,...si, con mi mente descompuesta y chanchuyera.
Ati茅ndeme y escucha un momento querida mia.
La honestidad, la sinceridad, la sensibilidad y la apertura de nuestra mente, alma y coraz贸n a quien y cuando decidamos hacerlo es algo muy bonito, enriquecedor y que est谩 muy lejos de hacernos m谩s vulnerables, al contrario, creo firmemente que nos fortalece. Compartir nuestros sentimientos no nos quita m谩s que un peso de encima, nuestra fortaleza no se debilita porque expresemos con coherencia y verdad lo que sentimos, por muy personal y privado que te pueda parecer lo que compartes. Los secretos no son m谩s que una carga pesada que no necesitamos llevar.
Expresar Amor
Imagen de mi archivo personal
Cuando amas a una persona, decirle, demostrarle y expresarle tu amor con toda la transparencia e intensidad que quieras, no implica que est茅s a su merced y que pueda hacer de ti lo que quiera, no significa que si esa persona te traicionara no ser铆as capaz de reaccionar de la manera correcta porque est茅s bajo alguna influencia hipn贸tica inducida por tu desnudo emocional, no, nuestra manera de actuar es definida por nuestros c贸digos 茅ticos y morales, y por nuestra propia definici贸n de lo que est谩 bien o mal, no por lo que sintamos y elijamos compartir de una manera real y transparente, porque adem谩s, toda persona es merecedora de saber c贸mo te sientes hacia ella.
Expulsar problemas llorando.
Hay ciertas personas ( amigos, familiares, parejas), con las que nos desahogamos, porque est谩n dispuestos a escucharnos cuando no estamos bien y queremos desalojar un problema de nuestro interior, ya sea en busca de un consejo imparcial o solo de eso, de soltar ese peso que cargamos y nos da帽a.
Los asuntos que compartimos podr铆an ser dolorosos, adem谩s de ser muy privados y pudieran exponer cosas que quiz谩s otras personas guardan para si mismos porque nos afectan demasiado y nos haria lucir(seg煤n su criterio) vulnerables o d茅biles debido a que nos arranca un llanto espont谩neo que se piensa(incorrectamente a mi modo de ver) que debe suceder donde nadie te vea.
Otra vez no, soy como soy y mi manera de expresarme en un determinado momento es la que mi cuerpo y mi alma necesiten y si hay que llorar para limpiar y sacar todo de adentro, pues se llora y no pasa nada, frente a quien sea, que llorar es humano, y no define el grado de fortaleza o debilidad de ninguna persona
Ejemplos podr铆a haber m谩s, pero ya con estos 2 creo haber establecido mi punto de vista, 驴no cre茅s?
Ella, mi mente, no dijo nada y cr茅anme, el silencio en ella no es algo com煤n, as铆 que supongo que al menos esto lo haya entendido y deje de acusarme de desnudos desprevenidos e impuestos ante extra帽os.
La integridad y la fortaleza de mente y esp铆ritu que construimos sobre la base de la personalidad que hemos creado a partir de los preceptos, c贸digos y criterios que defendemos no est谩n para nada en peligro porque nos mostremos, cuando lo decidamos, tan reales y tan desnudos como queramos, esto 煤ltimo metaf贸ricamente, o no, depende del momento a compartir, jajaja, 馃槈.
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...Naked, that there will be no design that suits you better, than the one of your skin adjusted to your figure...
My mind and I had a long conversation the other night, I had to get tough with her... she wants to do whatever she wants, whenever she wants, she won't let me sleep when she comes up with an idea in the middle of the night and now she's decided to accuse me of things that don't make sense and she says it's an abuse of power on my part, taking advantage of the fact that I'm the owner.
Do you know what she told me yesterday? She told me, all upset and gesticulating, that the next time I was going to undress her, or rather, strip her down to her underwear without her consent in front of a bunch of unknown Hivers who could very well be vicious with dirty minds (her words, not mine), I could at least have the decency to warn her so she wouldn't put on her old panties with the gaps in the back and wear decent bras so she wouldn't be embarrassed in front of total strangers. She says that because of the last post I made for the #wekend-engagement of the weekend-experiences community.
She says that if I'm going to be doing that kind of thing now, we'll be revealing intimate details that would expose us to everyone knowing our weaknesses or vulnerabilities and that could be used against us to harm.
So, in total disagreement with her, I decided to give her this explanation to see if she could understand my approach. With your permission, dear readers, I'll tell you as if I were talking to her...yes, with my messed up and twisting mind.
** Pay attention and listen for a moment, my dear.**
Honesty, sincerity, sensitivity and the openness of our mind, soul and heart to whomever and whenever we decide to do it is something very beautiful, enriching and far from making us more vulnerable, on the contrary, I firmly believe that it strengthens us. Sharing our feelings only takes a weight off our shoulders, our strength does not weaken because we express coherently and truthfully what we feel, no matter how personal and private what you share may seem to you. Secrets are nothing more than a heavy burden that we do not need to carry.
Expressing Love
Image from my personal archive
When you love a person, telling them, showing them and expressing your love with all the transparency and intensity you want, does not mean that you are at their mercy and that they can do with you whatever they want, it doesn't mean that if that person betrayed you, you would not be able to react in the right way because you are under some hypnotic influence induced by your emotional nakedness, no, our way of acting is defined by our ethical and moral codes, and by our own definition of what is right or wrong, not by what we feel and choose to share in a real and transparent way, because in addition, every person deserves to know how you feel about them.
Crying out problems.
There are certain people (friends, family, partners) with whom we vent, because they are willing to listen to us when we are not well and we want to get rid of a problem inside us, either in search of impartial advice or just that, to release that weight that we carry and hurts us.
The issues we share could be painful, in addition to being very private and could expose things that perhaps other people keep to themselves because they affect us too much and would make us look (according to their criteria) vulnerable or weak because it makes us burst into spontaneous tears that are thought (incorrectly in my opinion) to happen where no one sees you.
Not again, I am who I am and my way of expressing myself at a given moment is what my body and soul need and if I have to cry to clean and get everything out inside, then I cry and nothing happens, in front of whoever, because crying is human, and does not define the degree of strength or weakness of any person
There could be more examples, but with these 2 I think I've established my point, don't you think? She, my mind, said nothing and believe me, silence is not common in her, so I guess she at least understood this and stopped accusing me of unprepared and imposed nudity before strangers.
The integrity and strength of mind and spirit that we build on the basis of the personality we have created from the precepts, codes and criteria that we defend are not at all in danger because we show ourselves, when we decide, as real and as naked as we want, the latter metaphorically, or not, depends on the moment to share, hahaha, 馃槈.
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