I grew up hearing people talk about how men are promiscuous and the likes, it used to be ladies asking the question about what men actually want because according to the ladies we seem to always be on the cheating side.
With modernization came advancement in various areas of our lives including modern medical surgeries. With them came modern problems such as BBLs.
Lol, I can already imagine most people thinking how BBLs could be a problem. Well it's not technically a problem for the women, it's a problem created for us guys.
Things like Brazilian hairs and the likes are female problems because mostly an average guy doesn't even know the difference between a Brazilian hair, togolese hair, bone straight or a muscle bend, once she's beautiful she's beautiful.
What the ladies won't admit is that they wear these things to oppress fellow females.
Guys on the other hand are attracted to what we see, which is why i mentioned earlier that BBLs are a problem for the guys. All these surgical implants were created solely to lead us into temptation and deliver us safely into evil.
I actually do not condone cheating, but ladies have to understand there are some situations that are beyond us.
One of such situations promoted me writing this piece. A cousin was complaining about how he was taking a walk on campus with his girl when suddenly there's another lady in front of him who might've gotten a BBL from her massive property.
Now there's no way to play it as a guy because the only two options available to you will still put you in trouble.
The first option is to stare because it's in front of you, but your girl will definitely be offended you're checking someone out right in front of her.
The second is to avoid looking, but again there's no where else to look because it's literally in front of you.
Now she notices you're trying so hard not to look, which to her means you like what you see. Either way you're in trouble cos there's no winning these types of arguments with the ladies.
My only advice to him after his whole ranting was something a coursemate told me when I was still in school.
He said if the lady is in front of you and you stare, you're not cheating. But immediately she passes you by and you turn you that your bighead to have another look, then that's definitely cheating and you deserve whatever you get.
I don't know where that coursemate is, but I believe he was a deep thinker and should be ranked high amongst the world's greatest philosophers. Expectations can sometimes be very different from our reality.
Peace馃