Life often presents us with choices that tug at our hearts in different directions. Imagine being invited to three special events all on the same day but in different locations, held by special people dear to us—a cousin's wedding, my best friend's wedding anniversary, and a huge family reunion. Each occasion holds its own joy, its own memories, and its own importance. However, when faced with such a decision, I would rather choose to attend the family reunion.
Before I go any further, allow me to please warmly greet and appreciate our amazing judge of the week, 
I personally relate to option number two of this week's 235th edition of the Loh-Contest
Why I Chose The Family Reunion
One thing is definitely certain: family is irreplaceable. What's more, this occasion only happens once in a blue moon. The last family reunion I last attended was held last
year in 2024. It was indeed an epic one.
Therefore, choosing the family reunion over the other two occasions was not an easy decision—it was one made from the deepest part of my heart. To me, family is the foundation of who I am. They are the people who have known me from the very beginning, who have instilled my values today, and shaped me through love, discipline, laughter, and sometimes even disagreements. A huge family reunion is definitely more than just a gathering; It is actually a pure celebration of roots, identity, and belonging.
In this modern time, many families are scattered all over the world. Oftentimes, we get so absorbed in our personal pursuit of a better future and struggles that years can really pass by without actually seeing a loved one. Therefore, a family reunion is definitely a rare opportunity to reconnect, to listen to stories and experiences from elders and learn from them, play with younger cousins, and share meals and laughter together. It is during such reunions that bonds are rekindled, misunderstandings are really resolved, and new memories are created.
Mending Bonds With a Friend And Cousin
While I sincerely cherish my cousin and my best friend deeply, I am aware that I will definitely have other opportunities to celebrate with them. Perhaps I can sends gifts and flowers to my cousin the next day, and of course, include an apology letter attached to it.
And to my best friend, I can always plan a visit soon after, with a gift accompanied by a sincere apology as well.
However, a family reunion that brings together rare generations may not happen again anytime soon. Some family members may be aging or dealing with health issues; the reunion might be the only opportunity I have to actually hug them again or even sit and listen to their stories and experiences firsthand.
A family heirloom is priceless, and a great pillar of strength to me; they are the people who will stand by me when others walk away. They are the ones who hold my childhood, my heritage, my love, and my future. Family is definitely indispensable. By choosing the family reunion, I am choosing connections, unity, and love—the kind that last a lifetime; forever.
