Friends,
The question has been on my mind for a few days now, because a few days ago my colleague had to face a lot of criticism for a small mistake and for that he has failed to pay attention to the office work for the past few days. Then he took a few days off to fix his mental condition. This is why I am trying to express my feelings through today's writing.
Because we humans, not completely free of error, can be wrong in our work, that's normal. But it is commendable how seriously we consider those mistakes, if we try to learn from them and do not repeat them later. And if we keep making the same mistake over and over again, it deserves criticism.
Those of us who try to do something good, who try our best to prove their worth all the time, can't stand criticism in many cases. Because sometimes we think too much about criticism, this plays a role in changing our mental state and at some point it turns into a negative thing. So our work can go wrong and criticism can come for that mistake, first we have to make ourselves aware of this issue. Then we have to think about how important the criticism is.
This is because in many of these cases, we have been criticized without making mistakes, which has led to a change in our healthy mental state. Because why would I tolerate criticism for the mistake I didn't make. Again, many times criticism is made because of our mistakes, from which we will try to correct ourselves.
Although this is a simple equation, in most cases we do not accept this equation, but try to misrepresent ourselves by expressing the opposite reaction.
Through this backlash we make more and more mistakes and give rise to more and more criticism. This puts a lot of stress on us the next time and we cannot easily get out of that position. A lot of times, we start criticizing others to cover up our own faults, which is not right at all. Because without correcting our own mistakes, we are belittling ourselves by abusing our own thinking power by criticizing others.
So, whatever the situation, we have to be mentally calm. First, if we have to face criticism for our own mistakes, we have to gladly accept it. And if not because of your own mistakes, you should still try to stay calm there and try to avoid it as much as possible. Because it is most important that we stay calm at all times.
Declaration: This is original content of mine with own photography.
Thanks all for understanding everything.
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