People started cursing him, but the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) called him near and asked, "Son! Do you like this for your mom too? He said: "No, by Allah! Never." Then you also asked about daughter, sister, aunt and uncle. After that he placed his hand on his chest and said:
"O Allah, forgive his sins, purify his heart, and protect his freedom."
(O Allah! Forgive his sins, and purify his heart, and protect his private parts.)
The narrator says that after that this young man never paid attention to anyone!
[Musnad Ahmad : 22211]
A few days ago, Sheikh Abd al-Razzaq al-Badr of Madinah, who taught this Hadith, made him cry and the audience also cried. What made me want to put that part of the teaching in front of you...
Sheikh says:
"These three prayers; Write them down! Remember them! And organize them well! That O Allah, forgive him and purify his heart and protect his private parts!
I say again, write these words down and remember! Because the youth today are going through a period of temptations. I do not think that this young man who came to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) can face as many temptations as today's young man!
That is why the youth of today needs the sympathy of good people. Someone who will be kind to him... make love to him... pray for him with a sincere heart!
The father's prayer is accepted in favor of the son. A mother's prayer is accepted in favor of her son. The father should not say about his son that Allah may disgrace you.. May Allah harm you.. May Allah curse you! Do not help the devil against your son!
Young people need compassion! Father's sympathy ... mother's sympathy ... relatives' sympathy ... friends' sympathy!
Youth need prayers. True prayers from true hearts. Hopeful prayers to Allah that O Allah forgive their sins, purify their hearts, protect their private parts!
Even that young man, when he got up from the meeting of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), thanks to the best advice, compassion and true prayer, there was nothing in his heart.. Everything was over!! In his heart there was not even the slightest allurement of this sin; Such a sin from which the heart remains hanging and whose temptation is very great..!
There was nothing in his heart...!
Only three things...compassion, good advice and true prayer! And the result is great, very great!! By Allah! The youth of today needs someone to be gentle with them...someone to pray for them with a sincere heart...someone to admonish them in a good way...someone to be against them. Don't be Satan's helper!! »
These words of Sheikh have come from the heart and for those who have heart!
Brothers! I don't like words. In simple words, my request is to become a "benefactor" of a single sinner for the sake of Allah. Become his friend. Give him confidence that when he is tired of sins, he comes to you.. Let him know that there is someone who does not advertise my sins! Whatever I tell him, he advises me... Accept it. Bear the smell of smoke coming from his mouth. Listen to his stories comfortingly...Pray for him, the angels will pray for you..Be a giver of hope every day..He himself will walk with you to pray one day! Spread the white cloak of your so-called piety over sinners. This is a great virtue. Very big! So big that its burden can't be lifted by big good people!!
And you don't necessarily have to be an angel to do all this. Absolutely not.... Just a feeling that today's youth needs compassion!
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