How can a husband love his wife to the point of madness?
Interview with an old lady
Who spent 50 years with her husband peacefully and happily
馃崁 The woman was asked what is the secret of this fifty years of quiet life?
Was she very good at cooking?
Or is their beauty the reason?
Or is it because of having so many children or something else?
馃崁 The old woman replied: The direction of a peaceful married life is in the hands of a woman after the grace of Allah.
Do not mention property in this regard.
A lot of rich women whose life is a job, the husband keeps running away from them
The reason for a happy married life is not even children, there are many women who have tens of children, yet they are deprived of the love of their husbands, rather they end up getting divorced.
Many women are expert cooks, cook day in and day out, but still complain of abuse by their husbands.
馃崁 The female journalist who interviewed was very surprised, she asked:
Then what is the secret of this happy life?
馃崁 The old woman replied: When my husband is very angry, I resort to silence, but this silence also includes respect, I bow my head with regret.
Some women are silent on such occasions but there is an element of ridicule involved which should be avoided, a sensible man realizes this immediately.
馃崁 The female reporter asked: Why don't you leave the room on such an occasion?
馃崁 The old lady replied: No, by doing this, the husband will think that you are running away from him.
I don't even want to hear it.
One should remain silent on such occasion and should not oppose anything until he calms down.
馃崁 When the husband calms down to some extent, I say:
Are you done?
Then I leave the room
Because the husband is tired of talking and after shouting, now he needs some rest.
I leave the room and get busy with my usual activities.
馃崁 The female journalist asked: What do you do after that? Do you adopt a conversational closing style? Do not communicate for half a week?
When you don't talk to your husband for a week at a time when he needs to reconcile with you, he will get used to it and then it will escalate into a dangerous type of hatred. .
The journalist asked: Then what do you do?
馃崁 The old lady said:
After two or three hours, I take a glass of juice or a cup of coffee to my husband and say in a loving way: Drink it.
In reality, the husband needs the same.
Then I start talking to him in a normal way.
He asks am I angry with him?
I say: No.
After that he apologizes for his harsh words and starts talking in beautiful ways.
The interviewer asked: And you accept his words?
馃崁 The old lady said: Of course, I'm a clumsy bit, I have full confidence in myself.
Do you want me to believe everything my husband says when he is angry and not believe anything he says when he is calm?
The female journalist asked: And your self-respect?
馃崁 The old lady said:
First of all, my self-esteem is at the same time
When my husband agrees with me
And may our married life be peaceful
Secondly, there is no such thing as self-respect between husband and wife
When men and women are each other's clothes, then what kind of self-respect??
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