There are many factors that influence our reactions to situations and state mind afterward, a previous experience may trigger new behavioral patterns in both children and adults especially if the past experience was tragic.
A few years ago, I was walking down a lonely street with my friends one afternoon when two young men approached us and asked for directions. Before we could start talking, a knife was pointed at my stomach, and we were told to hand over our phones or the knife would be used on me. It was the longest one minute of my life, and when they zoomed away, I was stunned for about an hour, shivering and crying. I could not figure out the reason for the shaling, but I would not just go away.
That was a traumatic experience for me, and just like me, people encounter such kinds of experiences so fast, they often find it difficult to process. Some develop post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) afterward.
Failure to recover from such traumatic experiences can lead to post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). This abnormality has a wide variety of symptoms that can vary from individual to individual. Some of the most common symptoms include:
Generally, when you are in danger, your first response to panic is to freeze, fight or run. And these responses are controlled by biological enzymes, also known as hormones, released in your bloodstream in those events. The hormones are regulated when you are no longer in danger, but studies show that people with PTSD still produce these hormones after the dangerous situation is over.
Since PTSD can not be diagnosed physically, one can only know when symptoms such as anxiety, vivid flashbacks, or other symptoms show up.
The main treatments for PTSD are talk therapy; the results may be slow, but talking about how you feel helps you realize where you are mentally and guides your counselor in the right direction for advice. Medicines can also be given to help with sleep problems if they exist. Because PTSD affects people differently, treatment is variable; what works for one person may not work for another. If you have PTSD, you should consult a mental health professional to determine the best treatment option for your symptoms.
Talk therapy, also known as psychotherapy, can assist you in becoming more aware of your symptoms. You'll discover what causes them and how to deal with them. PTSD talk therapy comes in a variety of forms such as cognitive-behavioral therapies (CBT), dialectic behavior therapy (DBT), psychodynamic therapies, and humanistic therapies.
Medication can help to alleviate the symptoms of PTSD. Antidepressants may help with symptoms such as sadness, worry, anger, and a feeling of being numb on the inside. Other medications can help treat sleep disorders and nightmares.
Because both adults and children can suffer from PTSD, it is critical to observe and evaluate anyone behaving abnormally. PTSD symptoms vary, so even if you have encountered one, you may not see the same symptoms in another patient.
It is natural to want to assist a loved one suffering from PTSD to make him or her feel better, but it is critical that you approach the situation correctly. Here are some pointers to help you relate to a PTSD patient:
The first step in learning to interact with people with PTSD is to learn about the disorder so as to know what to expect. A good understanding of the disorder will give an insight on how to deal with the patients in different situations.
Another helpful suggestion would be to give them space if they want it; you may believe that constantly being around them will help, but they may need time to process everything that has happened after a traumatic event. Do not put any pressure on them to share their experience.
Allow them to take the initiative if they want to share, and be prepared to listen and speak when necessary. Do not pass judgment or assign blame. Being kind to them as much as possible and acceptable to them will go a long way.
Do normal everyday activities with them, preferably ones that will not remind them of the traumatic experience. As long as they are not opposed to having people around them, be with them as much as possible.
It is easy to get frustrated with a PTSD patient, but you should learn to manage your own stress to avoid detachment. One can only help patients out when one himself/herself is mentally fit.
Be patient. It does take time for PTSD patients to fully recover. Be supportive and encourage that they take medications if and when necessary.
