It can be so tricky to balance things with in-laws! It sounds like your sister-in-law chooses to see the negative in many things, which would frustrate me beyond belief too!

I find it admirable that you can list these three positives about her regardless, it is no easy task when someone makes our blood boil! The care, consideration, and hard working aspect of these helpful actions with the goats are really nice though. Maybe someday you two will bond over this and the negativity will dissipate 🤞