Friendship Over You
Have you ever heard of a quote saying,
Be kind, because you don't know what others is going through in their life.
Over the years.
I'm used to stick by that quote but somedays you just got to release the bad side of you.
You got to say "NO" to certain things that you don't feel like doing.
It's not to be rude but sometimes when it's too draining for yourself and who cares if they drained you up after that right?
At the end of the day, they just throw all the negative vibes to you and sucked up all your positive vibes while pushing all their weight off their shoulders on you.
I realised that a simple "NO" actually does make a big difference in life.
I've learned this over and over again over the years.
A true friend will never neglect you and will talk it out if there is a problem between you two. A proper communication is always important because that's where most of the people rather be misunderstood than accepting the truth & facts.
Sometimes it's better to lose a friend than lose yourself.
When they have problems, they will go all the way out to find you and ask for your help but when you needed their help, they will just suddenly disappear.
It's too common these days.
Sometimes it's better to just focus on yourself, building yourself up and the love ones around you rather than having any friends at all.
Moral of the story:
Sometimes you just can't be way too kind to others because they will step you down someday without realising it.
You just got to be a badass sometimes so that they don't throw shits on you at the end of the day.
Anyhow, life still goes on anyway.
One door closes, another door will open.
Sometimes it's not easy to have a big heart too, having that positive mind to help others but oh well look where it headed to?
Cheers!
Just do you. 😉
