Before getting married I always prayed to God for these three qualities;
1, kindness, 2, respect 3, God fearing.
And I wasn't willing to compromise these qualities for anything because aside love, those qualities would help the marriage to keep going even when we have issues.

I have always wanted a partner who respect me and my family and that's why I always pay attention to how he treats his family especially his mom. If he loves me so much and he isn't treating his own family well I wouldn't accept him. I had called off a relationship then because the guy wasn't talking to his mom for over three months, he stopped talking to her because she used his money to get household stuff instead of the land he wanted to buy.likeee that's not enough reason for me, he would treat me same way. It shows how value money more than the relationship he shares with his mom.

In all, if you are looking for a spouse watch the way they treat their family.
@luchyl what do you think about this question?