Success is not an accident. It is the result of our attitude or attitude and we choose that attitude ourselves. So success depends on our own choices and not on any contingencies.
Many people hope to win the big lottery, but what is the success of winning the lottery?
A priest was driving past a field full of crops, seeing a beautiful crop, he stopped the car and praised the crop, and in that case the owner saw the priest and drove his tractor to him. When the high priest asked, "Are you grateful to God for giving you a good harvest?" The owner of the field replied, "Yes, I am grateful to God for giving me this field, but this crop is the fruit of my labor." It is amazing to think that a person achieves one success after another in life.
Again some are just ready for work. It is also very surprising that a person reaches his goal by overcoming one misfortune after another in his life, and a person struggles to overcome a single misfortune and cannot reach the goal. If the above two questions were included in the curriculum in schools and colleges, and students were given the right answer, but if you were to take our education on a new look. Those individuals who are actually extraordinary do not actually wait for the opportunities to come, the ordinary individual will often seek the security in life. Focusing on the goal we want to achieve in life is not what we want.
Even if you don't pay attention to him. What is success?
There has been a lot of research on success and failure. We should learn from history in this regard. When we build the biographies of successful people, we see that they have many of the same qualities, regardless of the age in which they appear. We too can be successful if we identify the qualities that led to their success and follow them properly. Similarly all failures also have some characteristics. If we ignore these features, we will not "fail". There is no secret to success. Success is simply the result of applying a few key principles on a regular basis. The opposite is true in the same way. Failure is the constant repetition of a few mistakes, these may seem simplistic but the fact is that not all truths are so simple as to say that the original ideals can be followed very effortlessly, but it is true that these are not too complicated or impossible.
Those who often know how to smile and love, those who appreciate a wise man,
And gets the caress of the kids, gets the praise of the savvy critic,
And those who can bear the dishonesty of false friendship,
Those who worship beauty,
Those who seek greatness in people
Those who destroy themselves without expecting recompense;
Those who can become overwhelmed with laughter,
Those who sing are lost, those who are brought into the world,
It has become easier to breathe in the air of the earth,
If you know that at least one brings comfort in life
In his efforts, then it will be the success of life, success.
What is the definition of success? (How do we define success?):
How a person succeeds. How do we recognize success? Some. Success means getting rich, success to someone means social recognition, healthy beautiful family, happiness and social punishment. The implication of these is that success actually depends on their own ideas, meaning different things to different people. One definition of success can be summarized as, "Success is the realization of a true purpose." - Earl Nightingale
Let's judge this definition carefully, if the word "progressive" means that success is not a destination, it is a journey. We never reach the destination. After reaching one goal we move on to the second from there to the next goal, then to its next goal. "Perception" is an experience. No external force can give me the feeling of success, I have to feel it within myself. The feeling of success is sincere, not external. We often use the word "right" to mean values. Which way are we going? ? Positive or Negative? The word “right” determines the quality of the method and the goal, and is associated with the meaning and spiritual fulfillment of the goal.
Why? “Goals” are very important; Because it is not easy to determine the path to a fixed destination. Success does not mean that it will be acceptable to everyone. I don't want to be acceptable to any group. Criticism of the foolish can be tolerated but the praise of a person with bad character is unbearable to many. If I were asked to define success, I would say that success is a blessing that is rooted in inspiration, ambition, desire, and hard work.
Success and happiness go hand in hand. Success is when you get what you want, and happiness is about limiting the desire to get what you get. Survival alone is not success. It’s more than that.
Survive like some people more than just living. Something more than touch-feeling. Something more than watching observing. Something more than reading understanding. Realizing something more than listening.
John H. Rhoades
Some obstacles to success (real or imagined):
Self-centeredness
Lack of planning
Life is changeable
Family responsibilities
Fear of failure / lack of self-esteem
Specific structural
Procrastination
Lack of goals
Financial security issues
Confusion without focusing on specific goals abandoning future plans in the hope of immediate financial gain
Taking on a lot of work alone Taking on extra responsibilities
Lack of perseverance
The winner's advantage
Lack of training
Lack of priority
The winning edge: To get it, we must strive for excellence.
But not to be completely perfect. Those who try to be completely perfect are mentally deranged. Those who strive for excellence go on the path of progress. Does the fact that the winning horse wins in a ratio of five to one or a ratio of ten to one in a race with a slight advantage or predominance mean that the winning horse is five or ten times louder than the losing horse? Certainly not, the horse might win five times the prize for winning a fraction of a distance, the others getting nothing.
Is it fair? Maybe not but no one cares. This is the rule of this game and that is why horses run in races. The same is true of our lives. Successful people are not ten times better than unsuccessful people, they may be only a fraction better but their rewards are more than ten times better.
So we do not need to improve one thousand percent in any one particular case. All that needs to be done is to make one percent improvement in one thousand different areas. It's easier. This is where the winner dominates.
Struggle:
There is a possibility of both victory or defeat in the struggle of life. No victory comes without struggle.
A biology teacher was teaching his students how caterpillars transform into butterflies. He told the students that in the next two hours the butterfly would come out of the caterpillar cocoon but no one would try to get the butterfly out of the cocoon in a hurry. Saying this, he left the class.
The students looked at the cocoon and waited. The butterfly was trying desperately to get out of the cocoon. Please consult a student teacher was disobedient and broke kakuna butterflies come out to help. As a result, the butterfly did not have to try very hard to leave, but soon died butterflies.
