i was late to change. I was still partying like mad well into my 30's and even early 40's. Hell, the fact that I plan on a party once a week at my bowling outings already has me outpacing a lot of people my age but I just don't want to do it anymore and this is a tough thing to manage in an expat community in Asia since it is such a major part of what everyone does. I spend a lot of time alone but that is just fine with me.