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INTRODUCTION
Dream achiever - parents' intervention. I know many of us will be wondering how can parents be of help to their children to achieve their dream in life? Under this topic,we shall be looking into steps involve or should be involved for parents to help their children. Besides,parents' dream should not e the most target one for their children but that of childrens' dream should be given chance to glow.
HOW/STEPS TO GUIDE CHILD TO ACHIEVE HIS/HER DREAM
Prayers
Word of God
Know your child's dream and give him regular check up on his/her academics performance.
Regular advice/counselling
Back them up.
Now,let us go into details from step to step;
Prayer is the key to every doors in life. Therefore,parents need to intensify prayers for their children so as to ensure their divine guidance. Through prayers,dreams are achieved,life re-shapened,directions were clear and testimony follows. Any parents that refuse to do this ,do not want good life for their children.
*WORD OF GOD*
Any life that lacks word of God is prone to destruction. Parents must make it a paramount duty to feed their children with the word of God right from their earlier stages. Through it,parents direct their children on whatever plans they have for themselves. A child that is having plan to become medical doctor in his/her career needs thorough monitoring and advice on what he or she needs and must get in his/her mind so that they keep focusing and build on such mindset to achieve their dreams. But parents with no word of God can not do this because there is nothing to reference with.
Ordinarily,no child can achieve his/her dream in career without outstanding performance in his/her choice field of study. A child must choose his/her field of study based on his/her career dream. Therefore,parents that want better life and peaceful night for themselves must always check on their children's academic performances right from their primary school level. How can you expect a child with no guidance in studies to perform excellently? Parents are meant to be excellent in their doings for their children to emulate them. The career dream of a child can only be achieved through his/her qualifications. No child should be left alone if truely,we want a better society. Parents must guide their children in whatever they plan to be in life.
*REGULAR ADVICE/COUNSELLING*
Parents are to keep advising their children on their dreams. Regularly ask them their plans to achieve their dreams. Guide their plans. Continue doing this until they are able to stand on their own in life. It gives you chance to know them well and also gives them positive mindset of good parental input in their lives.
*BACK THEM UP*
Parents ,please i am begging you in the name of God ,always be a back bone for your children's achievement. Give them your full support. When you so this ,and they are in the right positions,then you have a successful journey of parental care on them.
EFFECTS OF ACHIEVED DREAMS ON CHILD
EFFECTS OF FORCING A CHILD TO BE WHAT PARENTS WANT
Child is under negative mindset of forcefulness and lack of concentration to the imposed career even if such child
manages to achieve what his/her parents want. It is what parents imposed not such child's wish.
It affects child's psychological reasoning because he/she is going to face battle of hatred-loved.
The intelligent quotient of such child may face inferiority because his/her brain may not be able to cope with the
level of such imposed career
Child's dream is truncated and achievement is hard
parents will not feel fulfilled because that child may not even succeed in that field.
Such child losses confidence in parents
Such child losses his/her line of fruitfulness
Parents,be your child's best friend. Never force or impose your children to be what they don't want to be. Do you think any child that is forced to do something will perform excellently, oh no ! Always guide them aright based on their dreams.
GOD BLESS YOUR HOME.
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