People are not born with the ability to love themselves, it is something that is acquired as we grow. Developing self-esteem and having a healthy self-esteem is the result of a personal construction that begins in childhood and extends throughout our life cycle.
It is important to create self-esteem in children from an early age, so that in this way they strengthen their self-confidence, in terms of their abilities, tastes, and personality. Children must learn to value themselves and to love themselves. Only then will they be able to respect, accept and love those around them.
Self-esteem as a determining factor in the development of children.
Depending on the degree of self-esteem that the child has, his development will depend on learning, on personal relationships, on the activities he undertakes and the formation of his happiness.
A child with low self-esteem will not trust his own or others' possibilities, he will feel inferior in front of other people, which is why he will grow up with a shy, lonely, and aggressive personality.
On the other hand, a child with good self-esteem feels competent, safe and valuable, with the disposition to learn and share with the people around him.
He feels comfortable sharing with the people around him.
They make their dreams come true and fulfill their goals.
It is essential that children feel loved, respected and valued by their parents, family and friends. Someone who only receives only negative comments or disqualifications, will not feel happy, instead he will feel unmotivated, and insecure.
The role of parents in the self-esteem of children.
Low self-esteem can have negative consequences for children, marking their adolescence significantly.
Parents play a very important role in strengthening the self-esteem of their children, since it is not something that is learned in school, but is built daily through personal relationships.
Parents and representatives should be concerned about maintaining good physical health in their children but it is also essential that they are attentive to promote their stability and emotional health, be aware of any change in mood or personality, in order to correct any negative situation with time.
Correct in a positive way, motivate if something did not well on the first attempt, keep on insisting, until giving positive results.
Be an example for them. Parents are the model to follow their children, it is important to show good values and positive attitudes for the child to learn good things.
Talk with the child, about how he feels sharing with other people, in order to evaluate his interpretation of the opinions of others.
Parents must show love and affection to their children.
You should not compare or judge a child, but show him his talents and how special it is for the family.
Children must learn to make mistakes and correct, it is important that they learn.
Let us support and help our children to grow healthy and strong, physically and emotionally, to value what they have and be happy as they are, without having to change their way of being, for other people. Let them know that they are special, unique beings and have a purpose in life.
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How to help children improve their self-esteem? | Ecency
