If succeeding as Pastor means failing as a parent, you have already failed as a pastor;
If succeeding as an Evangelist means failing as a parent, you have already failed as an Evangelist.
If succeeding as a Teacher of the word of God means failing as a parent, you have already failed as a Teacher;
If succeeding as a Prophet means failing as a parent, you have already failed as a Prophet.
If succeeding as a Woman leader means failing as a parent, you have already failed as a woman leader;
If succeeding as Men leader means failing as a parent, you have already failed as a men leader.
If succeeding as Deacon means failing as a parent, you have already failed as a deacon.
If succeeding as a Deaconess means failing as a parent, you have already failed as a deaconess.
If succeeding as an Elder means failing as a parent, you have already failed as an Elder;
If succeeding as the Church secretary means failing as a parent, then you have failed.
If succeeding as a Children leader or Children Sunday School teacher means failing as a parent, you have failed
If succeeding as a Youth Leader means failing as a parent, you have already failed as a Youth Leader.
What ever position you may be, if your family is not in order then you are not even fit to lead or better still you are a failure.
May God help us, Amen.
I remain