A large part of the society talks so much and makes so many thesis and comments without thinking that they deny what they say, even an hour later tomorrow, when we remind them, they immediately deny it and try to make us liars. In our age when social media is the oil, the facts are told with the lie of inside out. This causes many people to suffer.
For this reason, I am now enjoying the pleasure of fulfilling the "read" worship by turning to books that provide more logical and solid information as much as possible, being careful not to chat with people as much as possible, and not to encounter people who talk and shake as much as possible.
There has been denial since human existence, and everything started with the devil's denial of Adam. Satan is still trying to make people like himself to be unbelievers. I think it's a big win in our age to run away from people who are in denial and become friends with the devil.
People deny what they said yesterday in order not to appear weak, but even if they do not lose their friends, especially us, they shake their trust. This means that the denier will be harmful in the long run. That's why I think it makes more sense to reduce communication with people. Talking to those who do not understand, who deny, is sometimes no different than talking to blank walls. It is more useful to be silent instead of an ineffective speech. They did not say for nothing that "speech is silver, silence is gold".
Those who deny their laziness mostly see the system as responsible for their failure. They complain, but they say, "I'm not actually complaining, I'm doing due diligence". Those who think that they will be very successful with little work are usually like this. However, behind great successes is the secret of working hard and productively without showing off. Because successful people work on time and in a planned, efficient and logical way. When we tell this, they immediately deny it and accuse us of lack of understanding.
Denial does great harm. That's why everyone should know their role in life well. If everyone does their duty in business and home life, the number of denials decreases. I see that some women in society make themselves ridiculous by pretending to be men, while others pretending to be poor and broke even though they have money. So much so that active parents, who are not even primary school graduates, keep their children and grandchildren away from their relatives and acquaintances with their prejudices and denialism, which their children and even grandchildren will benefit from as deniers. When we tell them this with awareness, they sneer, yet they do not give up on denial even though they see the truth. Isn't denying the facts and not being able to accept them is the biggest feature of a denier? How can you accept?
Despite my age, even I can only realize these after reading so many books and observing for so many years, maybe it is not enough for people who do not read books and do not make observations to become conscious of them in their lifetime.
When the majority of the society thinks about their pockets, I sometimes say to those who only think of their own interests because they don't read, but say "I'm right" because they don't read, "I say that I'm right" and record their conversation with a tape recorder. to their state.
Denial is a very important term that has sanctions both in law and religion, and there is even a concept called "denial compensation" in law. If the denier consciously denies that he denies, he should know that these sanctions have both religious and legal sanction and should deny accordingly. Because "the sun is not covered with mud" and I think that being a denier has a human sanction as well. Loneliness may be their own choice, or they may have condemned themselves to loneliness by not being faithful to their debts by denial, lying or not keeping their word.
