I agree, we should have our own opinions to form our own values. And one of those values should probably involve not making people feel like crap for their stupid decisions. Ha. I have friends that live the lifestyle mentioned in this post, and I find it distasteful, but friends we are anyway, with no ridiculing. Friendship is important. Maybe some of my ideas will rub off, or maybe I can just collect data to solidify my thoughts on our differences. And then I can come here and let off some steam :)