I missed reading a bunch of your posts!!

I don't think it's wrong to judge people in our heads. I think it's a natural part of our psyche, actually, a way in which we gauge our own values. The wrong part (in my opinion, of course) comes in pointing fingers, blaming, outright ridiculing and shaming. Other than that, well, I think we're human and I think sometimes other humans annoy us. I mean, there's sooooooooooo many humans out there. We can't just up and be fine with all of their values and behaviors.