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I have never thought of it not until today when I decided to ask my hubby have I ever annoyed you? Guess what his answer was? Very very… what? Really? You never complained? Okay what did I do that was annoying?
Hubby: you always drop your wet towels on the bed, who does that? When you are done with your towel it is better to sun dry it, don't you think?
You come back from work and leave your clothes on the sofa, what happened to your wardrobe? Speaking of wardrobe, don't you see the need to arrange all your clothes? You do things like a child, make use of your wardrobe demarcations in order to organise your clothes.
I always remind you to put off the gas cylinder, your apology is annoying because you still won't take correction on that and that's being reckless!
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I couldn't defend myself, all he said was true but I never saw it the way he said it, there was no need to render any apology because all he needed was for me to change those habits. It pisses him off probably he showed me rather than tell me but I wasn't paying attention.
Most times due to the nature of my business I tend to be in a hurry and just because I feel it is my house I don't bother about fixing things properly, but I could actually schedule a day to arrange them. Coming back from work I am usually so tired that I don't think of going inside the room to undress so I undress in the sitting room. while resting on the sofa I could sleep off and even when he wakes me up to go to the room I don't remember to take my dress to my wardrobe. Turning off the cylinder knob is another episode of forgetfulness. I wouldn't say I am reckless because it doesn't happen all the time.
So now I am going to work towards it, and of course stop annoying him. I think I should ask my friends the same question probably I have been very annoying to them, who knows 🤷