Cómo me ayuda un Superhéroe? /How a superhero helps me ?

Los niños tienen un momento en su vida en la cual se obsesionan , si porque esa es la palabra que mejor describe el sentimiento que mi hijo en particular tenia con el personaje de marvel del hombre araña, estaba obsesionado con todo lo referente a este personaje , no se cansaba de ver sus peliculas , creo que la hemos visto mas de 50 veces , y todo para el era referencia de el hombre araña .

Children have a moment in their lives in which they become obsessed, yes because that is the word that best describes the feeling that my son in particular had with the marvel character of spider man, he was obsessed with everything about this character, he could not get enough of watching his movies, I think we have seen it more than 50 times, and everything for him was a reference to spider man.

Anteriormente cuando saliamos a comprar cualquier cosa para él , tenia que ser de su personaje , porque si lo ponias a escoger , eso era lo que iba a hacer , tomar cualquier cosa que hiciera referencia a su heroe , asi que mi hijo tiene una variedad de cosas de su personaje , el bolso del colegio , la lonchera , zapatos , camisas y asi un sin fin de cosas .

Previously when we went out to buy anything for him , it had to be of his character , because if you put him to choose , that was what he was going to do , take anything that made reference to his hero , so my son has a variety of things of his character , the school bag , lunch box , shoes , shirts and so on endless things .

Tanto asi que su cumpleaños numero 3 , cuando le preguntamos de que lo queria , su unica y segura opción fue la de su personaje , asi que nos dedicamos a prepararlo de forma que el estuviera encantado , pero en esos meses de preparacion , le decia que mi hermano era amigo del hombre araña y que el iba a llamarlo a ver si venia a su cumpleaños , eso obviamente lo motivaba a portarse bien porque vendria su heroe a vistarlo y no podian decirle que se el se habia portado mal , la verdad fue muy gracioso incentivar su imaginacion todo ese tiempo , entonces teniamos planificado que mi hermano se disfrazara del hombre araña y se presentara en su cumpleaños , y bueno les cuento que la sorpresa fue maravillosa , mi hijo estaba encantado , a todos sus amigos les presentaba a su heroe , y de verdad que mi hermano lo hizo muy bien , hasta acrobacias sabe hacer , asi que esa presentacion fue genial , despues del cumpleaños fue muy gracioso porque luego el hombre araña tuvo que visitarnos como tres veces más porque khael queria verlo , pero como tiene un tio que lo adora , entonces siempre que podia venia el hombre araña a visitarnos .

So much so that on his 3rd birthday, when we asked him what he wanted, his only and sure choice was his character, so we dedicated ourselves to prepare it in a way that he would be delighted, but in those months of preparation, I would tell him that my brother was a friend of Spiderman and that he was going to call him to see if he would come to his birthday, I would tell him that my brother was Spiderman's friend and that he was going to call him to see if he would come to his birthday, that obviously motivated him to behave well because his hero would come to visit him and they could not tell him that he had misbehaved, it was really funny to encourage his imagination all that time, So we had planned for my brother to dress up as Spiderman and show up on his birthday, and well I tell you that the surprise was wonderful, my son was delighted, all his friends were introduced to his hero, and really my brother did very well, He can even do acrobatics , so that presentation was great , after the birthday was very funny because then the spider man had to visit us three more times because khael wanted to see him , but as he has an uncle who loves him , then whenever he could , the spider man came to visit us .

Estrategias innovadoras para educar

Innovative strategies to educate

Un dia conversando con mi hermano por una situacion que khael se habia portado mal , el me dijo que lo motivara a portarse bien hablandole del hombre araña y desde ese momento mi visión de ese super heroe cambio, ahora no era alguien que me obligaba a gastar de cierta manera sino que era mi aliado en la educación de mi hijo , asi que lo hice asi , cada vez que el se portaba mal , le preguntaba que si el pensaba que su heroe actuaria asi , y el decia que no porque su heroe es bueno y lo que hace es ayudar a los demas , entonces de cierta forma el reflexionaba en sus actos y queria ser como spiderman .

One day talking to my brother about a situation that khael had misbehaved, he told me to motivate him to behave well talking to him about spider man and from that moment my vision of that super hero changed, now he was not someone who forced me to spend in a certain way but he was my ally in my son's education, So I did it this way, every time he misbehaved, I asked him if he thought his hero would act like that, and he said no because his hero is good and what he does is to help others, so in a way he reflected on his actions and wanted to be like spiderman.

Estos momentos en la vida de nuestros hijos son bien especiales por que ellos buscan una motivacion un ejemplo el cual seguir , y generalmente es alguien que se esfuerze por hacer el bien y ayudar a los demas y es algo noble que los niños van aprendiendo poco a poco , a poder diferenciar lo bueno y lo malo y a entender que e s la empatia , ya que sus personajes lo que hacen es preocuparse por los demas y ayudarlos, asi que eso es excelente .

These moments in the life of our children are very special because they are looking for a motivation, an example to follow, and it is usually someone who strives to do good and help others and it is something noble that children are learning little by little, to be able to differentiate good from bad and to understand what empathy is, since their characters are concerned about others and help them, so that is excellent.

Muchas veces nos preocupamos como madres por la violencia intrinseca que puede haber en estos personajes de ficcion , pero no vemos mas alla de que podemos sacarle como provecho , claro siempre es bueno sentarse con nuestro hijo y explicarle que la violencia en la vida real no esta bien , no es aceptable , pero es un concepto que poco a poco entenderan .

Many times we worry as mothers about the intrinsic violence that may be in these fictional characters, but we do not see beyond that we can take advantage of it, of course it is always good to sit down with our child and explain that violence in real life is not right, it is not acceptable, but it is a concept that little by little they will understand.

De la misma forma estos superheroes estimulan su imaginacion , recuerdo haber visto por internet un video en el que el creador del personaje explicaba el hecho de que "al tener una mascara el superheroe , cualquiera podia ser , cualquier niño de cualquier color o raza , podia ser spiderman" (Palabras de Stan lee), y es increible pero ese simple detalle permite al niño adentrarse en ese mundo y sentir que le puede formar parte de los buenos , de los que salvan , y alli podemos explicarles lo que realmente significa ser un heroe en la vida real , aquellas personas que se dedican al servicio de los demas y dan parte de su vida por el bienestar de otros.

In the same way these superheroes stimulate their imagination, I remember seeing on the internet a video in which the creator of the character explained the fact that "by having a mask the superhero, anyone could be, any child of any color or race, could be Spiderman" (Words of Stan Lee), and it is incredible but that simple detail allows the child to enter that world and feel that he can be part of the good guys, of those who save, and there we can explain what it really means to be a hero in real life, those people who are dedicated to the service of others and give part of his life for the welfare of others.

Asi que si tu hijo o hija tiene amor por algun personaje , es excelente porque puedes enfocar esto de manera que te ayude en es su educacion .

Hoy en dia mi hijo paso y supero esta etapa pero fue algo maravilloso, y son asi son etapas que van viviendo y que debemos buscar las estrategias para ayudarlos a vivirlas con emoción para que tambien puedan superarlas .

So if your son or daughter has a love for any character, it is excellent because you can focus this in a way that will help you in their education.

Today my son went through and overcame this stage but it was something wonderful, and they are like this are stages that are living and we must find strategies to help them to live them with emotion so that they can also overcome them.