Every one has a reason for getting married, why are you??
Some get married just to have kids of their own, some to have free licence to have sex, some are getting married so they can have a cook in the house, some get married to be happy, some get married to ease them self from stress, some get married because they just want to be among the married.
Many are getting married because age is no longer their friend and they need a heir, many get married just to show people they can get a man, some get married because of the wedding party.
Why are you getting married? there should be a concrete reason before saying yes i do. Give yourself a purpose and a vision.
Prepare for the marriage not the wedding, make sure that partner of yours have a vision and purpose for life.
When their is a soul aim for marriage or a centre of attraction, like a man getting married because of kids or a woman getting married because of money. Once she stops bringing forth children or the money is no more there, things begin to fall apart.
Marriage always have a purpose, do well to know the purpose of your partner before going into marriage. Never forget to put God first, pray for grace and keep the goal alive.