Many men shake the feelings of their partners all in the name of correction, speak harshly and irrationaly which will end up hurting her feelings. There are better and calm way to approach your partner when he or she does something wrong, many women live in bitterness and anger due to the way their husband correct them most times.
When next she is not getting it right, use this methods,
Dont Raise your Voice Shouting at her like she's your house maid will make her loose her confident in you, with time it can reduce the love she has for you. Dont correct her in anger.
Do It In Love when you correct her correct her with love. Call her pet names before eventually telling her what she did and why it was wrong.
Dont Criticize Never criticize your spous, it means disapproval by pointing out errors and mistake or comparing her to others. Correct her in love.
Correction is the act of offering better options to mistakes, criticism and correction are not the same thing
When she does what is right, praise her, if you correct her when work is not well done, praise her for a job well done. From constant praising and appreciation, she will become perfect.
Dont correct her before the children, it brings about disrespect and they might loose trust in their mother if they constantly see such a thing, they start thinking their mother is not capable of doing anything.
The same way you wont correct her in front of the kids, dont correct her in piblic also because it doesnt show you as a gentleman and its going to affect her self esteem.
Never compare your wife with any other woman, not even your sister, if you want your wife to posses a certain character, dont say it to her, just work your way to making her like that, dont start comparing her with your neigbours wife or some woman you meet at a party.
Let old issues be old issues, dont bring it back and start reminding her of the mistakes she did. Discuss like an adult and move on. Dont attack her dignity, telling her shes a fool and all sort of abusive words on her, correct her in time of peace and not when every thing is still hot, when temper has already hit the roof, that is not the best time to correct her.
Always give a helping had to her, thats the best way to correct, lead by example, join her in the kitchen most times instead of just sitting with the tv in the sitting room. Appreciate your wife for she is doing a great job.
