Hi @erh.germany,
I enjoyed reading on how you've internalized and dealt with challenges early in your relationship with your husband, and how you two managed to set certain boundaries in a healthy way that works for both of you.

What stands out the most to me is the loyalty that you two have for one another. I think that is not something to overlook in a relationship, and may be one of the most important aspects. Loyalty and trust.

In the manner of how you both adopted this playful teasing with one another, it seems to serve as a different style of communication that creates an easing of stress perhaps?

You and your husband are well above average scale intellect, and with intellectuals, the pathway for success may not resemble a "normie" relationship, but in my mind there is nothing wrong with that!

You and your husband are both amazing beautiful people.

It's great to see you posting again my friend! 🤗