There seems to be a tendency in many of us to try to figure out "why" something is happening, or why we are like we are, especially when what we are experiencing is "negative".
This is based on an assumption that external events are primary, and that our feelings are results of those events.
I believe that asking "why", or generally trying to understand one's life rationally doesn't lead forward but keeps us stuck in analysis.
The only way we can truly resolve things is within our bodies, on the level of sensation.
