Life is not the bed of roses neither it is the bed of thorns. A person is himself or herself responsible for making his or her life either the bed of roses or the bed of thorns. Success in every field of life never comes to you on its own. You have to strive hard to get to it. As the example of climbing the ladder says to reach to the top you have to climb every single step on the ladder, same is the case with the success of life. Success is not the ladder which can be climbed with your hands in the pocket. Happy and sad moments are the part of life. If sad moments are not faced, one can never realize the worth of the happy moments. Adversity is that great part of life which leads you towards the successful future. Adversity makes you stronger and enough capable to bear the entire crisis you face traveling through the different stages of life in order to make you stronger both mentally and physically.
Life isn’t a bed of roses. It’s full of ups and downs. It is like an endless ocean and we are sailing in a boat in its amid. it will become hard for us to survive in this lifeless voyage, But we have to do it.
A simple human gets pressure from everywhere. He has to face the pressures of family, job, peer group etc. It becomes difficult for them to fight with the life. That’s why those who are mentally weak commit suicide. They aren’t able to fight with themselves. They can’t lie to themselves. They get surrounded with sorrow and failure.
People will have to learn to be optimistic. They need to love themselves then others will love them in return. They have to become mentally strong to with the evils of the society.
We think that life is only difficult for us, but there are others too who are in worse conditions than us.
School, society and family all contribute to the emotional development of a person.
So one will understand that doors are not closed. There is no need to get disappointed because of the failure. They aren’t the only one struggling in this huge sea like world. There are other people also who are sailing with them in the same boat; trying to reach their destinations.
So better be happy and accept every failure with smile on your face and peg it to experience.
There are more sorrows than joys in life, if someone thinks deeply about it and becomes upset, he can never be happy. We cannot ignore the bitter truths of life and can only search some moments of happiness to keep ourselves satisfied.
The idea of a happy life differs from man to man. True happiness is just a state of mind. It is no way connected with material glory and eminence. There are people who think that happiness is hidden in wealth.
If some one wishes to have all type of luxury things, it well be the invitation of sorrow and nothing else
Easiest way to the greatest happiness is the most faithful use of what you possess says Swami Ram Tirth
Our aim must not be acquiring more and more but keeping satisfied ourselves with what we have acquired.
We must always try to keep our mental state within limit. It is equally important to minimise our wants.
Generally on this earth life is like Two sides of a coin, same to same as different happy and sad moment phases of life. But if we will think about it. Life is full of struggle and challenges, and if we want to succeed we should always keep our trust in Almiand also in ourselves.
CONCLUSION
Life never waits for anyone, you have to come up and get it. Never think that if your facing pain or failure than life becomes useless for you. As we say after every dark night there is a morning that comes up with full of light that brightens up your day. If you face crises than do think that the success is making its way to you. All you have to do is to urge harder to get through all the problems which surely will bring you closer to a better future.
