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Dear Hive lovers, different situations arise in our lives at different times, sometimes happiness comes in our lives and sometimes sadness comes, in times of happiness there are many people around us, but in times of sadness there is no one by our side, everyone wants to share happiness but no one wants to share sadness, in times of happiness we do not lack friends but in times of sadness there is no friend or ally by our side.
One of the reasons why many people are by our side in times of happiness is that they also want to be happy from our happiness and they also want to share our happiness, but in times of sadness they do not stay by our side because they themselves never want to be sad in the sadness of others, rather they find another happy person and go to him, and leave us who are sad alone.
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That is why we can recognize our true friends when we are sad, because those who are our true friends and well-wishers are the ones who are by our side and extend a helping hand only in times of sorrow, through them we get various kinds of help during times of sorrow, and those who are by our side during times of happiness but leave during times of sorrow can never be our true friends.
That is why sometimes I remember a famous line from a Bengali song, "Jadi tor dak shun ke ku na aaye tet ekla chalo re" This song means that if no one comes to you after hearing your call, then keep walking alone, because at some moments in life you have to be alone, that is why if we sometimes make a habit of walking alone, then we will not have much trouble during times of sorrow.
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Although it is difficult to walk alone at times, the regret of not having anyone by your side in times of sorrow will be reduced to a great extent, because we have already learned to walk alone. Of course, we should all lead our lives without depending on others, because many people are not available in times of need, everyone goes away, when the need is over, they start coming closer again.
Among these, there are some people who are exceptions, they are our true well-wishers and they are our true friends, because they are always found by your side, these true friends do not want to come close in times of happiness, but in times of sorrow, they help us and extend a helping hand, that is why these friends should never be neglected, but rather they should always be kept close.
