[ESP/ENG] ¡Qué alegría, voy a ser papá!

En diciembre hará un año que hice mi entrada en este ecosistema y en esta comunidad. Recuerdo que en una de mis primeras publicaciones narraba por qué había tenido que salir de Cuba y cómo mi anterior esposa no estuvo de acuerdo ni me apoyó y tuvimos que separarnos. Fue un golpe muy duro para mí porque es la mamá de mi niño pequeño.

Pero, recuerdo como si fuera hoy el comentario que me dejó @emiliorios invitándome a seguir hacia adelante, que si no hubo comprensión tampoco el amor había sido tan fuerte y que me levantara y siguiera hacia adelante, que vendrían nuevos horizontes.

Hoy, quiero agradecer cada una de las palabras de este gran hombre porque se han venido cumpliendo cada una de las cosas que me dijo y, hoy, quiero contarles una de esas palabras que me dejó en la caja de comentarios y que me tienen tan feliz.

Resulta que, encontré una mujer que es una excelente esposa y un gran ser humano. Al igual que yo, ella es una emigrante que se está abriendo pasos, y en ese roce continuo de miradas, búsqueda de trabajo, ordenar documentos migratorios, miradas y mucho más nació el amor.

Ha sido una relación que ha sanado parte de las heridas que tenía en el corazón y le ha dado alegrías a mi vida. Respeto, comprensión, ayuda mutua y, sobre todo, mucho amor caracteriza nuestra relación.

Pero, la vida ha querido premiarme con el mayor regalo que nos pueden hacer a los seres humanos: Ser padre. Es una alegría que solo puede describirla quien ha tenido la dicha de ser padre o estar al punto de serlo.

Este niño viene a ser una bendición en nuestras vidas, un puente entre la tristeza que sentimos por dejas a nuestras familias en nuestros países y la alegría que representa el tenerlo con nosotros.

Como es un niño que ha sido concebido con mucho amor, será un niño bueno, hermoso y tierno. Y, digo, niño, porque en el ultrasonido que muestro como imagen primera de esta publicación, ese fue el sexo que arrojó ese examen.

Ojalá que mi otro niño y mi niña mayor puedan reunirse conmigo aquí en este país. Es cierto que todavía me falta mucho capital para poder costearles el viaje, pero, estamos trabajando muy duro para cumplir con el objetivo de tenerlos juntos y conmigo.

Gracias @emiliorios por su apoyo en ese y en otros momentos en los que ha tomado parte de su tiempo para darme aliento y mostrarme el camino. También, quiero agradecerle a @tonyes, @charjaim, @estelacha y a @yirkahr por todos sus consejos.

Es cierto que no soy de los más activos en la comunidad. Pero, es poco el tiempo que tengo libre, pues, para poder costear nuestros gastos y ayudar a mi familia en Cuba, debo trabajar varias horas al día. Pero, a pesar del poco tiempo, @holos-lotus me ha brindado la mayor ayuda que he podido recibir y debo decir que todos han sido muy cariñosos y respetuosos.

Quisiera compartir mi felicidad y agradecerles por todo.

Créditos.
He utilizado el traductor DeepL Translate.

Las fotos fueron tomadas con mi teléfono Samsung Galaxy.

ENGLISH

In December it will be a year since I entered this ecosystem and this community. I remember that in one of my first publications I told why I had had to leave Cuba and how my previous wife did not agree or support me and we had to separate. It was a very hard blow for me because she is the mother of my little boy.

But, I remember as if it were today the comment that @emiliorios left me inviting me to move forward, that if there was no understanding, love had not been so strong either and that I should get up and move forward, that new horizons would come.

Today, I want to thank each of the words of this great man because each of the things he told me has been fulfilled and, today, I want to tell you one of those words that he left me in the comments box and that makes me so happy .

Turns out, I found a woman who is a great wife and a great human being. Like me, she is an emigrant who is making her way, and in that continuous exchange of glances, job search, ordering immigration documents, glances and much more, love was born.

It has been a relationship that has healed part of the wounds I had in my heart and has brought joy to my life. Respect, understanding, mutual help and, above all, a lot of love characterizes our relationship.

But, life has wanted to reward me with the greatest gift that can be given to human beings: Being a father. It is a joy that can only be described by someone who has had the joy of being a father or being on the verge of becoming one.

Today, I want to thank each of the words of this great man because each of the things he told me has been fulfilled and, today, I want to tell you one of those words that he left me in the comments box and that makes me so happy .

Turns out, I found a woman who is a great wife and a great human being. Like me, she is an emigrant who is making her way, and in that continuous exchange of glances, job search, ordering immigration documents, glances and much more, love was born.

It has been a relationship that has healed part of the wounds I had in my heart and has brought joy to my life. Respect, understanding, mutual help and, above all, a lot of love characterizes our relationship.

But, life has wanted to reward me with the greatest gift that can be given to human beings: Being a father. It is a joy that can only be described by someone who has had the joy of being a father or being on the verge of becoming one.

This child becomes a blessing in our lives, a bridge between the sadness we feel for leaving our families in our countries and the joy that it represents to have him with us.

As he is a child who has been conceived with a lot of love, he will be a good, beautiful and tender child. And, I say, child, because in the ultrasound that I show as the first image of this publication, that was the sex that that exam showed.

I hope my other boy and my older girl can join me here in this country. It is true that I still lack a lot of capital to be able to pay for their trip, but we are working very hard to meet the goal of having them together and with me.

Thank you @emiliorios for your support in that and other moments in which you have taken part of your time to encourage me and show me the way. Also, I want to thank @tonyes, @charjaim, @estelacha and @yirkahr for all their advice.

It is true that I am not one of the most active in the community. But, I have little free time, because, in order to cover our expenses and help my family in Cuba, I must work several hours a day. But, despite the short time, @holos-lotus has given me the most help I have ever received and I must say that everyone has been very loving and respectful.

I would like to share my happiness and thank you for everything.

Credits.
I have used the translator DeepL Translate.

The photos were taken with my Samsung Galaxy phone.