One of the things you have to figure out in life is which is the weather part of growing up is
realizing that your parents were figuring life out too when you were a kid you thought they knew everything.
Now you are older and you realize they were also trying to make more money and make good decisions keep the family together and figure out what the hell they were doing.
You start looking at them a little differently when you understand this so you don't judge your parents when they could not be fulfilled or they did not meet up to the expectation you wanted them to meet.
It is there for you to know and make things
better for your children and your next generation. The responsibility now is yours and you know what to do and not know what to do now from your experience and your knowledge.