hello everyone today I would like to talk to you about people, about human nature at least what I think ...
I am not a psychologist or anything else, I like the human, his different ways of thinking ... so this morning it took me like a desire to c ... (to go to the pool) to develop with you...
I find it unbelievable how many people interpret things, talk about things, intervene in a situation ...
We all have a way of thinking, a way of doing things ...
Did not you ever arrive or witness one day with two people who are debating a subject that is so dear to their heart that it ends up shrieking, whereas from the beginning they say the same thing but with different words, a different language ...
a person has a very difficult life, financially, lovingly ... he needs the help of a friend, the family ...
one day he finds a sympathetic shoulder and this person tells him:
good you can come live at home but you quickly find work and you get back on your feet financially and you go back to your life ...
..... Later in his life, always in his malaise and his financial pitfall, he meets another compassionate soul who offers him his help and tells him:
you take care of finding work, though, an apartment and I lend you money to repay your debts ...
still later still unhappy, still in debt (just not to the same person) he met a third person who said he was ready to help but who does not really know how to do it, she offered to already put his bags, that they were going to have a drink and a good meal to celebrate their reunion ...
The next day, after a good evening relaxed without any question from the masters of the house, here the host gets drunk, cries, talks about his maléêtre, still no question, just listening ... and nothing did not change from them.
As time goes by, the host retires to the simple thing of life, to eat, to laugh, to talk, to exchange, to participate in the daily life of the house (shopping, cleaning, eating ...)
Today this person is well, has found a circle of friend, a higiene of life, a job, a desire to live ..... always that debts, but it is no longer a problem.
Moral of my story, learn to listen to your interlocutor, your friend, your families.
we all have our way of thinking, of being but it is perhaps not the best or the most adapted, or simply it is complete with that of your interlocutor.
here are my slogans to me:
RESPECT LISTENING EXCHANGE HUMBLE HAPPINESS
Feel free to answer, give your opinion, I'm listening
With pleasure, Kenavo.