We talk to make our point. To prove that we are right or innocent. We talk to prove we are not guilty. We talk all the time. Speech is a big part of human existence because it is a vital way to communicate or pass some message across to the hearer. However, there are times when silence is preferred to speech. There could be situations when it is better not to talk. Sometimes, we can actually make more sense by not talking. Little wonder then that an ancient proverb said that there is a time to talk and a time to keep quiet. Several situations can call for silence. Consider the following
1. When you don't actually have to prove a point: Different situations exist when you are unfairly criticized. People say all sorts of bads things against you. They might do this to gain some advantage or just to make you feel bad. Most times, the criticism is baseless and unfair. You could prove a point by answering your critics - perhaps directly. Nut then, you could provide the best answer by keeping quiet and continuing your good work. For sure, actions do speak louder than words. So when you do the right thing and make sure you are not giving anybody room to talk bad about what you do, the people can have their say. At such a situation, the person whose opinion matters most is you. So you can keep silent and let your actions do the talking.
2. When you have someone that needs a listening ear: Yes, emotions may be running high and the situation charged up. It could be someone passing through a very difficult period in life and needs someone to talk to. Most times, it is preferable to just listen attentively and not talk. When some is going through a really confusing situation such as the death of a loved one or the loss of a job, we can can just listen patiently as they express themselves. Interupting them to tell them sorry or offer other words of advice do not always help. People that are under pressure are more comforted by someone who listens patiently to their words. It shows that someone wants to understand their situation. So in such case, its better to listenly silently and patiently, before knowing what course of atcion to take.
Now you have read about the two different situations above. Share with us some of your experiences about keeping silent and when it is best to talk. Inspire someone today!!!
