Are we different as humans? Yes, we are in numerous ways. Some people can give aimlessly while some people have a contrary motive. While I was growing up, I was taught by my parents to give without looking back and I also picked this selfless act from my parents. I could remember that year when Dad gave out accommodation to ten students without collecting a penny and they stayed for a year and a half. Hmm! What a selfless act!
However, in a world where kindness and generosity are often exploited for personal gain, it's refreshing to remember that true giving comes from the heart. There is this old adage that has been my watchword whenever I want to give "Let your right hand not know what your left hand is doing" This emphasizes the importance of selfless giving, which is out of expectation or recognition.
My personal experience with insincere giving left a sour taste in my mouth. During my final year at university, I faced a financial crisis when my mom couldn't afford to pay my school fees. I reluctantly reached out to an uncle for assistance, hoping for a discreet and genuine helping hand. Instead, he made me labor for the money, only to publicly announce his "generosity" to his children when he finally handed it over. The humiliation was palpable and I felt so engrossed in pain as if there should be a different way馃槺
This encounter reinforced my conviction that giving should be a heartfelt act, not a publicity stunt. The trend of broadcasting charitable deeds on social media, especially among celebrities, raises questions about their motivations. Are they genuinely invested in making a difference, or is it a calculated move to boost their image? Some individuals have good intentions for others to benefit while some believe it should be known to the public.
The Bible wisely cautions against seeking recognition for our good deeds, even when paying out tithes and offerings or blessing the needy around us. emphasizing the value of humility and sincerity in giving. When we give from the heart, we don't need validation or praise; the act itself is reward enough.
I am honored to be a part of the Pyramid of Heart Foundation, a remarkable organization founded by my friend Mr. Dare Johnson. His selfless dedication to making a positive impact on lives is truly inspiring. Through online awareness campaigns, our group has been able to reach a wider audience, not to seek personal recognition, but to spread kindness and generosity. I am proud to be among like-minded individuals who have actively participated in numerous outreach programs in the past and continue to do so this year. The generosity and willingness to give among my fellow group members is truly heartwarming.
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If I discovered that someone was only helping me to gain something in return, I wouldn't be surprised. Unfortunately, this behavior is prevalent, especially in workplace settings where colleagues may try to get favor with their superiors. However, I would still feel disappointed and disheartened by their insincerity.
Genuine giving has the power to transform lives and foster meaningful connections. When we give from the heart, we create a ripple effect of kindness that can inspire others to do the same. I guess that's why some individuals publicize their acts. Genuine giving from the heart cultivates empathy and understanding, allowing us to see the world from different perspectives. It builds bridges for a more compassionate and inclusive society.
I used to advise people to give with sincerity, humility, and love, by doing this, we can create a culture of genuine kindness and generosity that will benefit everyone around us
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This is my response to the #hivelearners writing contest on the topic; FROM THE HEART
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