It's not what you desire. is who you trust so a man can control his appetite but his temper is not within his power. He desire and even his money yet you can still destroy if you give on the person key to his heart.
Never put yourself around people that do not desire your assets because they will ruin it and we are just quick to carry body down for loss but that is not the main problem.
The main problem here is that people can trust you, understand you, show you their weakness and they can just betray you from nowhere.
That is why intelligence is not enough. Strength is enough. It's not enough. And even experience is not enough. If you're powerful, you also need that wisdom and discernment. To not give access to people that do not value you or do not have that power to contain you.