This is what i always believe too.
Many people around me scold me and said that baby is a blessing to the parents, yes they're to some context.
But as a parent, are you confident that you can be a blessing to the baby too?
Or are you just a selfish person that wants a blessing but dont want to give it back?
I think that only when i am confident enough that my baby will feel so grateful and happy to have me as the parent then i will try to have a baby.