This time 
>What have I got in my pocket?
I mean what's in and on my bedside table. I think that those of you who are not visiting my blog for the first time the answer will be quite predictable and maybe even boring. My bedside table is also my workplace so naturally it has to be connected to art right? I think so. So in this mess creative chaos you can see a canvas with my newest piece that is still in the process, Pyrography tool, felt-tip pens, a box with acrylic paints, colored pencil set,a few sketches, ruler, sandpaper...Probably not really surprising? There is also a blood pressure checking device because I have high blood pressure. But doctor wrote me some medicine so as long as I drink them daily my blood pressure is normal. As you can see I don't hide any skeletons in plain sight on my table. Am I boring you? Then let me make this a little more spicy.
Sex on a first date
I think that if two adults decide to have sex on the first date that is completely fine. I they chooses to wait that is great as well. Ultimately that is their business and no one has the right to tell them when to fuck. That being said I think that if I would have a girlfriend/ friend with the benefits and sex would not happen by a second or the third date I would probably just assume that the girl is not interested and move on? I think that were is nothing wrong with two adults having fun on the first date. In my opinion much more problematic than sex on a first date would be if one or both persons would start believing that they are meant to be together and start planning to grow old together... I believe that those kind of thoughts at the beginning would be very toxic, stupid and harmful. Because they would likely lead to at least one person getting hurt. So having or not having sex on the first date is not important as long as both people have the right expectations.
