Been a first daughter and a first child has given me so much responsibilities and in return taught me so much lesson or would I say, gave me so much wisdom.
I'm from a family of five members including my parents i.e I have two younger siblings. My dad is a first child and I have watched him groom his siblings and take responsibility for there future without neglecting his own family needs of which I was involved.
On the other hand, my mum is the last child and I have seen how she's be adores by her elder siblings and in return reciprocate the energy. These events kept happening and began to give a scenario of you recieved what you gave out.
Now back to me, I had always practice the love I have seen and enjoyed the return I get. I got so emotional when they act on it.
Recently, my has sister had an issues at previous place of work of which resign because of the confident she with me. Her boss has been mean by giving more than enough task daily and yet her pay wasn't raised. Due to the fact that she just started the work recently and does not how to disclose the matter to my parents because of how they would accept it. So I urge her to accept the offer (but I called it condition) inorder to keep the job.
But guess, I couldn't tolerate her suddenly and decided to take to take the bold step by informing my parents. Surprisingly, they agreed and requested her to quit the job.
Another scenario was I have always wanted to be a medical doctor. Despite my pursuit I'm achieving dream seems effortlessly and time was no longer waiting. Infact my sister had just concluded her west examination African examination (waec) and also participated in jamb of which I did. Unfortunately, my grandma died. So one need to forfeit their admission which was me. As at before that time, I already encourage my self to accept any course. So when we passed the exam and gained admission at the same time, we were happy that at least some expenses would be shortened into half such at accomodations as it was the same school even if the admission was double.
But guess what, my younger opted that she forfeit hers due to the fact that she till had enough time to process again according to her. I'm proudly in my final years. That single act alone has made understand the level of love and sacrifices she is ought to and in return, I have reciprocate it such as giving helping hands in chores assigned to her, encourages her and lots mores as expected. Oh lest I forgot, I'm very loyal been her confidant!
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