In life, they are many ups and down. But the ways we navigate throw it makes up who we are.
some people move without anybody's help. They just have the interesting of themselves alone without considering the well-being of their families. I could remember some time ago when I was going through some social media posts,and I saw a post that says "would you want your mom to play the same role in your next life," so many people were saying "yes" "yes! and i was happy because it shows the motherly love they had received.
until I came across a reply that says "no, God forbid " I was shocked, then I asked her why she would say something like that, that was when she began to tell me what her mom had done to her. she said, after she was born, her mom abandoned her for year with her grandmother and said she never wanted to see her, because she was a mistake.
i could imagine the heartbreak she felt when thede words came to het ears. I could also imagine how she feels when ever she sees children with their mother together. Ever since then, I never judge people who dislike their families or get angry when you mention family in front of them. Many people grow that hatred not because they want to or live it, but it's because of what they have been through in the hands of their families.
TRUST is one of the ways in which a family can be strengthen and strong. nowadays, trust is far from many family. most family lack trust and that's why an outsider can come in and take away the happiness which they have been building for years.
Another one is "LOVE". Especially in a polygamous family it is hard for love to grow their, because every mother wants her children to be seen as the best and first among all. In this type of marriage, even the man of the house is not save, because some of his wife married him because of what he has not out of love.
Many people have used friends to replace their family because their family forgot their responsibility and duties as a family. It's very sad seeing things like this happen, but some don't have choice.
Families are supposed to be our first, they are supposed to be people who stand by our side when things go rough and tough or even when we fall.
They are supposed to be our best friend, people who can defend us when accusations surfaces the air around us.
Thank you for reading.
