There are times that we are too soft and allow the world to take advantage of situations, to some times we let others take control, this may be due to laziness , confusion or avoiding conflict, Whatever the reason may be for it the situation, we often find ourselves , just accepting things for what they are and we deal with picking up the pieces.
There are times that are don't agree to certain things and we say our say , only to receive the feedback that they will still be going against our better judgement and the though of that builds a slight grudge or a hint of resentment.
As our pressure pots build to boiling point, the release of steam could be directed to the party involved or to those that do not deserve it, that lashing out is just the frustration of the events that have unfolded.
All it took was for us to be steadfast, but how would we have known that it would turn out like this?
Whats so wrong with giving people the 'benefit of the doubt'?
I am not saying that we should control everything in this life, but I do believe that we teach people how to treat us, and if we don't draw the line when we ought to, we allow others to push the boundary beyond our patience.
I know with some, its never just one thing that lead to the big blow up and fall out.
Its an amalgamation of things that finally just broke the camels back.
So before it happens, get to know yourself well enough to know that your actions may just be reactions to prior situations. Know what you are not willing to put up with before it gets out of hand.
Until Next time ...
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