People are being misguided. Allah has said to read the Koran and to understand, not to listen to Arabic words. Where did you come from Arabia? One hundred and twenty thousand apostles were sent to the Arabs that they might get a little bit of understanding.
Sadly, Muslims are more likely to listen to what is happening in the Qur'an. Please do not spread wrong things.
And if the order is to stay away from such wives and do not marry such women. How does the person know if his wife misses the past, he remembers his previous husband, does not complain, hesitate, etc. Are you advising the person to stay before marriage?
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