1- Honest opinion of a loved one:'-
If any of my close relative or my well-wisher friend gives clear and honest opinion on any problem of mine, and my goodness is hidden in it, then definitely I will say yes to his advice, and after accepting it, I will see its good and bad aspects. I will introspect myself so that later I cannot blame only that friend or well-wisher.
2-Drinks dinner party with friends: -
I always say yes to any drinks and dinner party organized by my friends and close relatives, because it is very important to be happy in life, and in this way many grievances, complaints and mutual distance get worked together. And after having a little drink, after enjoying good food, a person also becomes relaxed.
3- A long journey with a dear friend: -
I have always longed for long journeys, so whenever any of my dear friends (female or male) propose me for a long-distance trip, I always say yes to them. I have taken my own car, public transport vehicles, train, and air travel with my friends and have enjoyed them to the fullest throughout my life.
4- A stage show of humour and laughter or a motivational speech :-
I love doing humour and cracking jokes, so I never miss a chance to see a comic book convention, a comedy show, a stand-up show, or listen to an inspirational quote from the past.
5-My presence in the last journey of someone's death:-
I have always believed that a person may or may not be involved in his happy times, but in his sad times he must go to express his sympathies, help him, or join his grief. And that's why I said yes to my presence on such occasions throughout my life.
Now those things come in my life which I have always neglected.
And always said no for them.
1-Any political speech or conversation:-
I have a great hatred for politics in life, so I have said no to political conversations, and to listen to the speeches of leaders or go to their meetings.
2- Any friend and relative who blames others:-
I am always displeased with such conversations when a friend or relative makes a judgmental comment about another person, criticizes him, finds shortcomings in his charter. That's why I have always said no to such a person to join the conversation.
3-To show off:-
The principle of my life has been to show yourself according to your status, try to look higher than your standard in such a competition, that's why I have always said no to my family and children for showing off.
4- Spending more than necessary:-
This is also like showing off in a way, and it is said that you should spread as many feet as you can, I have always never believed in spending more than my earnings, never borrowed from any bank, institution or friend, nor did I Spent money and taught his family to be frugal.
5-Procrastination:-
I don't have the habit of doing any work in life, I want to say that if you want to do a person's work, then do yes, otherwise say no clearly, at least that person for some time. Will feel bad, but procrastination spoils the relationship forever. That's why I always said no to procrastination.
