Valuable people

🌞There are people to whom our personal development, our physical attractiveness or our economy does not move the needle of the love they have for us, even if we were the president of the country or you were in a street situation, they would receive you and look at you with the same affection and respect because they really love us, not because of what we are or what we have. We must take care of these people and value them, they are a great success in our lives and many times they become invisible to us.

🌞Although we can't deny that there are other people who are annoying and complicated, and in some cases, even toxic, who are like parasites that steal our lives. And when we get away from these people, it is as if peace finally returns to our lives. There are people who were very important in some stages of our lives, but they stopped doing us good. Either because we both grew up and took different paths, or because we no longer share the same interests. And it is okay to move away from people who no longer contribute to our lives, because in the end, our emotional well-being is more important.

🌞Friendship must be firm enough to keep us from feeling lonely, but flexible enough to allow us to feel free. It is tolerant because it is not possessive and does not require exclusivity. It is noble because it does not look at aesthetics or economic position. It is strong because it is there to support and save us in our worst moments, and understanding because it accepts us despite our problems and shortcomings. A true friendship gives a lot and does not expect too much. How boring this life would be if we did not have good friends.

🌞There are friends who were incredible in the past, but today they are no longer part of our lives and we have to learn to understand that circumstances change and perhaps what united us with some people in the past may no longer do so today. I know that their absence is very sad and hurts a lot, but we are specialists in emphasizing the endings and we forget the most valuable thing that an event or a relationship has, which is that it existed. I like to be grateful for having shared even a little bit of my life with those incredible people, even if that time is over.

🌞I do not know if surrounding ourselves with people who do us good lengthens our lives, but I am sure that being with them widens our lives. Therefore, we must choose our friends well, be with people who add and not subtract, with people we trust to accompany us on the road, people who help us face our fears and above all we can be ourselves without fear of being judged. To these people we can give everything without fear of being empty.